Now That She Said Yes, Where Do We Go?

A first date is an experience, and the best date becomes a memory for a shared lifetime. Online daters often stress over where to meet face to face for the first time. Here are a few examples of where to go on a first date.

By the Water

Rivers, lakes, and oceans all invoke romance. Though a picnic in a park is a great first date, a picnic on the beach or riverside betters it. The lapping waves or the gently, rolling current adds a pulse to the date.

Pack a sensible meal. Either a light lunch or elegant, simple dinner. Tapas—or an assortment of finger foods—could work for either occasion. Do not forget to pack utensils, plates, napkins, and glassware for your champagne or wine.

For Her Amusement

To avoid awkward silences and bored, furtive glances at the time—amuse your date. An activity is a date-saver. Bowling, pool, or a good, ole amusement park offers diversion and entertainment.

Beside the traditional forms of date entertainment—such as a movie or a play—non-traditional routes may offer you more points. Pottery shops or Build-a-Bear will make any date marvelous and, to boot, gives you a gift and memento for your date.

Take in the Culture

Every city delights its citizens with culture from the world over. With museums, special exhibits, zoos, and gardens, a city practically plans the date for you. Immerse yourself and your date in a learning experience.

Go above and beyond by researching your date beforehand. Impress your date with your knowledge of the Gauguin exhibit or the nocturnal habits of the fruit bat.

Many sites host excellent cafes and romantic restaurants for your first date as well.

Show Off Your Talent

Going out is not the only option for a first date. Though some daters are more apprehensive about going to someone’s home for a first date, not all first dates are the same. If you are set up through friends, you and your date may feel comfortable enough to meet up and enjoy a dinner in.

Cooking for a first date is a sure winner. If you have a family recipe—mom’s famous lasagna, for example—the first date is the date to pull it out.

Carefully planning and preparing a candlelit dinner will earn you points by suggesting to your date your devotion to her enjoyment. The more details you add—courses, wine pairings, music, etc.—will enhance the evening and impress your date.